My understanding of being a family is different

This video very well explains my understanding of being family (husband and wife). ( Maybe it is just me finding my own perception of being family in it. ) I have tried to express some of them with words.

Family is not made hiding your weaknesses. Family is made by showing your weaknesses and strengths as they are.

Family is not made by grabbing your partner’s hand. Family is made by offering your hand to your partner, and waiting for her to give her hand, patiently.

Being a family is not destroying each other’s identities, it is a process of self-actualization of both sides.

Family is not an institution where wife serves her husband, here everything is done together, there is nothing like ordering in this institution.

Family is about walking together, falling together, and getting back on your feet together.

Accepting being a family is a commitment to being each other’s missing parts. Family is all about completion as you, both, are incomplete.

Family is a very complicated art piece; perfectness and balance.

Family is not about losing your identity or personality, it is about realizing your existence with another one, together.

Family is being together knowing that it will last till the end, without any obligations.


4 responses to this post.

  1. Posted by Eugene Gabrys on December 4, 2011 at 1:18 pm

    The mind writes what the heart feels. ThX!


  2. Posted by perishan1 on December 7, 2011 at 9:23 am

    no comments)…because totally agree


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